'Sometimes the person can become fixated on the loss of erection further preventing them regaining their erection.' 'People typically overlook the fact that a person's erection waxes and wanes throughout the sexual encounter, meaning they may lose their erection, or partially lose it and then regain it,' explains Matt Tilley, a clinical psychologist and lecturer in sexology at Curtin University. That puts a lot of pressure on sexual encounters, given 40 per cent of Aussie men will experience erectile dysfunction. Sadly, it seems I will live out my life with this frustration.Many people with a penis see an erection as an important part of giving and receiving pleasure. My friends tell me I’m lucky she does this, and while I agree to an extent, I miss the feel of her body and giving her pleasure. Meanwhile, she still gives me earth-shattering blow jobs and has no shyness at all about this and says she loves doing it. When we were younger, she enjoyed sex and always had at least one orgasm and often more. She is quite prudish about talking about sex, and she claims she has never masturbated, although I have encouraged her to explore this. She refuses to tell me what feels good and what I can do differently to give her physical pleasure. Although she said she would see a doctor, she never did, which made it clear she was no longer interested in this activity. Five years ago, we stopped having intercourse because she said it hurt. My wife, like the wives of all of my friends, has pretty much lost interest in sex. I’ve always had a much stronger sex drive, which has really not decreased over the years. I’m a 67-year-old man married to the same woman for 45 years. They also tend to help people get a more nuanced awareness of their genitals, which might help you feel your husband’s penis more acutely. These generally help with pelvic floor tone, along with other physical benefits. And you should continue to have sexual encounters without the dildo entirely, to mix things up. I think it’s wise to keep his actual penis in the rotation, along with digital penetration, oral sex, or whatever else pleases the two of you.Īs for the sensitivity of your vaginal canal, depending on how much energy your husband has after ejaculation, you might focus on his pleasure first and yours second. Your husband’s factory-installed and add-on phalluses provide a chance for size variety. You absolutely can become accustomed to a certain kind of sensation, and we humans are prone to diminishing returns when it comes to novelty.

It’s wonderful that the two of you have found a new way of experiencing each other’s bodies, and something that gives you such pleasure. It is OK to use your husband’s large strap-on regularly.

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